Tuesday, March 30, 2010

Reflections from the road

My Step Mom is still in the hospital, but doing better, a couple posts to come up this week I wrote a while back. Dad's already had one spouse go before him, so it's hard on him. Thanks for all the thoughts and prayers and thanks Christina, for the long chat while I traveled today.

A couple weeks ago business took me across a neighboring state. I watch things as I drive, it's part of my nature to note detail. There coming up at my 8 o'clock position was a black 4 x 4 driven by a young lady. The custom license plate. GNYS GRL, with a little sticker on the back window - I love my Marine. I smiled, a Marine's wife or sweetheart.

Right behind her, and closing fast, in another, larger black 4 x 4 was another custom license plate USMC. Aha! The other half. I let them both pass, and watched while they got side by side, slowed down, exchanging loving glances, words and waves through their windows. Then they sped up on ahead. I wondered, had he just come home, was he soon to ship out? Young love, whatever the circumstances, is a pleasure to watch though.

The State Patrol was thick that day, and I hoped they wouldn't get a ticket, as they soon put me in their dust, trudging along at the speed limit in my plain squirrel vehicle. And I saw him, up ahead, opposite direction, State Patrol. He couldn't help but notice them and their speed, and the speed of a couple other cars around them and immediately took a U-turn lane across the freeway behind us all and came up behind us FAST.

No one up ahead seemed to notice and several cars in that bunch continued to pull away. I saw our young Marine and his girl way up ahead, STILL pulling away. I scooted into the lane directly behind them at a distance and flashed my lights, a bunch of times, hoping they'd see. Both immediately slowed, and tucked into the slow lane between a herd of semi trucks. The trooper flashed his lights at me, likely recognizing my plate as well, and I pulled into the slow lane. He shot ahead, lights flashing and pulled over another car that had been with those young lovers, riding point. He got his speeder. They got a break.

They stayed back and driving a little slower after that and when I passed, the young lady gave me a big wave. As I passed USMC I gave him a small salute. I bet he noticed my plates as well. One never knows who their fellow travelers are.

Whoever you are, the best of life to you both. Travel safe, travel well, and thank you for reminding a tired, road weary gal of service and true commitment.

16 comments:

Rev. Paul said...

Your stepmom remains in our prayers. Stay safe, lady.

Sven said...

Road Rangers...

That is a refreshing reflection, Brigid. Thanks

There is a code on the open road, unwritten and mostly unspoken. It came into being in the U.S. with its own dialect and shared by those who ran the lonesome two lanes in the days of Steinbeck's "Mother Road" Route 66.

Freeways have changed the landscape, but not the culture. Its a mystique that much of the world cannot know or understand.

D's big brother owns an OTR moving company based in Chicago. At age 62, he still drives cross-country, living in his rig for weeks at a time.

Back in 1997 a retired Swiss banker connected with Bill, D's brother. The banker had on his Bucket List - "to tour the United States in a 18 wheeler". And Bill obliged him. They stopped in Denver. We talked firearms, ate Buffalo and elk and rattlesnake at "The Fort" restaurant and took him on a tour of the Railroad Museum.

One comment defines that open road culture and mystique. He said: "I didn't realize how BIG the United States are."

Jay T said...

A great story Brigid.

Hat Trick said...

Sweet story.

Do you think "GNYS GRL" meant Guinness Girl?

Stay safe.

Christina LMT said...

It was lovely as always to talk with you, my friend.

And a pleasure to read your words.

Lorimor said...

Thoughts and prayers for StepMom!

Travel safe!

Terrapod said...

Dear Brigid - best wishes for your stepmom's speedy recovery. You realize of course we are now all dying to know what your plate says but one can hazzard a guess it relates to your favourite hobbies. Keep writing, it is a pleasure to visit your site on a regular basis.

reflectoscope said...

Sven - I read somewhere that in Europe 100 miles is a long way, and in America 100 years is old.

It doesn't hold perfectly of course, but it is an interesting comparison.

Jim

Keads said...

Our prayers are with you and yours.
As promised, here is the link to my post on the Kel-Tec. http://keads-anotherday.blogspot.com/2010/03/its-back.html Probably not high on your list of stuff right now understandably, but I did promise.

Kelly

Aanoosh said...

Nice posting, Brigid. Please give your step mom our best, and we're thinking of you and your family.

Chris

JPG said...

Continuing warmest wishes for your stepmom as she recovers and your Da' as he takes care of her.

- - - And of course for that marine and GNYS GRL. Paying attention to other motorists and wondering about their lives is a good way to stay alert and to stave off highway hypnosis.
Best,
JPG

Ghostrifle said...

Hi I hope your stepmom is feeling better soon. I have been so bold as to add you to my blogroll. A gentleman does not do this without asking, if it is a problem let me know.
I saw your range stuff we live under a handgun ban here but I would love to shoot a colt 1911, one day.

Have a care

Deer Passion said...

Sending good thoughts and many prayers your way...

Brigid said...

Ghostrifle. . thanks. . that's great'

Everyone. . thank you again. She should be released tomorrow. There are some serious underlying health issues that I won't get in to, but each day is prescious, even if she didn't know who any of us are any longer.

Andy said...

Wuv. Twue wuv.

Hang in there. Best wishes.

PA State Cop said...

Hugs, Prayers. Grandma??? Oh My. ;)