Scientists say that the ability to speak developed in our ancestors some 400,000 years ago. Their evidence appeared to be in engineering; the little hole in the back of the skull, the hypo-glossal canal through which fibers of nerves attach to the tongue, is larger in early humans than in other species. Hence the scientific explanation of our decidedly more articulate speech. So as speech divides us from the animals also does it divide us from each other.We speak in different languages, and even when speaking the same language, we often don't communicate, and when we do, we often don't truly mean what we say. Promises can be nothing more than words and oaths empty air, especially in election years.
Words can support, they can heal, they can cut like a knife.
English is the official language of aviation, and all air traffic control transmissions, worldwide, are supposed to be in English (of course, one man's English is another pilots' "Say Again??")
But conversation itself in aviation is regulated somewhat. Below 10,000 feet above the ground or while moving about on the ground, there is to be no conversation outside of what is required to operate the airplane on a commercial flight. But on long flights aloft, and sitting on the ground waiting for people or bags, all checklists and duties completed, the conversation often moves to the personal.
At one airport in the West, on a transport trip out of there, we heard, on ground control, what appeared to be a conversation between crew members, slightly muffled as if they're not speaking into any microphone, but a mic is picking it up. A youthful voice, likely the First Officer, is talking about his girlfriend and how much fun they had over the weekend, where they ate, the movie they saw, etc, etc. He then asks the other pilot "So, you got anyone special?"

No one can get a word in edgewise to tell these guys they're transmitting in the blind, as they've completely blocked the frequency, we can all just sit back and listen to the impending train wreck.
The captain responds". Naw, man. . I've been having this .. .um. . . uh. . . problem, man. Just can't get it up anymore. . . (sigh). . it sucks" as he goes into detail on his er. . ."condition." (this was years before Viagra mind you)
Finally, the controller breaks through with a stern "Gentlemen !! check your MICS. We've been listening to someone talking for the last 5 minutes on ground control !!!"
Deathly silence reigns after the blast from Ground.
Then, some anonymous pilot chimes in with "Sorry about your dick, man. "
Howling laughter in all cockpits.
Words, a movement of lips and tongue, that can cause laughter or pain, that can divide or conquer. Even in a nation where English is the official language, in parts of our country, there are whole neighborhoods where you won't hear it spoken.
Yet, sometimes one doesn't need to speak at all.
When disaster strike, the land itself turns mute and those that remain, stand simply as silent instruments unable to make a sound.
An old woman, standing in front of what remains of her house of 50 years, nothing, left, not even a photo. She cries, silently and wet, in a faded housecoat, as a neighbor puts his arms around her.
A pregnant young woman, her face growing older by the minute, wanders through the wreckage, clutching only a photo, making pathways between what now is only unknown.
The old and the young, looking at the work of their sweat and tears strewn about for miles, the wind thick and warm, like blood spilled, pooling around what little remains. A lone tree stands, its nervous branches bent down as if hoping not to be noticed.

Moving in and around, the firefighters, EMS, LEO's, volunteers, wearing blue and black and yellow. Such garments, solemnly worn, exchanged for lives that used to be ordinary, worn as they shape something from chaos, coercing that terrible blood wind to give up a sound, the forlorn echo of someone who might have survived underneath the rubble.
Survivors and saviors, moving without sound, sending a message as loudly to the sky as if they were one voice. There is no language for this, no words, it's defiant and imminent life, holding on.

11 comments:
Brigid,
So much can be said by silence...or a sigh. Beautiful words. Our best goes to those who are in pain over age, economic, and environmental issues.
No one said life would be easy. But, sometimes it is very hard.
Well said. Thank you.
SWModel66
Those last seven paragraphs communicated more than all the newscasts I seen these last few days.
I bet at least one pilot wasn't laughing though.
Stay safe. The storms have missed me so far.
I'll second Hat Trick. I've been watching the news about the tornadoes and devastation, but not feeling it - until just now.
Thanks, Brigid.
I can be in car number four in a multi-car pileup. Banged around a little, but otherwise fine. The occupants of cars one and two in very rough shape, in great need of medical care.
In such a situation wings pick up my feet. I move forward to help. I'm a part of the story, and my actions are not mine, but are guided by a greater being. I'm in the thick of things and already a part of the story. I stop bleeding, I share reassuring words.
I am covered in blood. To a TV crew I am highlighted as a hero. But I'm there, already a part of the story. A victim as much as anything.
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You are safe, you are not part of this horrific story, yet you rush in. You are not propelled into this dark tragedy merely by fate, you are guided by the light in your soul.
From an observer on the outside you have a choice. You can just go home to be warm and dry, safe in your own home. To you, there really is no choice - there may be danger and discomfort, but there is a generosity and caring aching to burst out of you.
You go in eyes wide open. You go in by the will of your decision. You go in by the desire to help. You are an unsung hero.
This is you.
The making of a song title, a lament, tragedy knows no boundaries is not prejudice, does not pick and choose.
I know full well the loss. The homestead was made into kindling and spread across the plains. What my grandparents had poured their blood sweat and tears into was again a barren piece of earth. Where my mother was born, no longer. My uncle had taken over after grandpa's death. His new buildings flattened, windrow, twisted and shattered.
It is a scene vividly etched into the mind. What had been home is now a memory. The losses can not be measured. The power of Mother Nature is beyond comprehension. The picking up of pieces will be little consolation for the loss. That will never go away, a bitter gall that lives inside.
My heart goes out to those who suffered through the wrath of Mother Nature. There will be prayers for all who are involved. thanks
Very touching.
I suppose it is that in darkness like this that those who choose to light up the world with their actions shine.
Jim
Who said life was static or to be unchanging.
Plan for the worst. Hope for the best.
If you get knocked down get back up.
A thing is a thing, and a life is a life.
Things can be replaced. A life can not be.
If you have done it once, you can do it again.
An ending is a new opportunity to do it better next time.
Today is your last chance to show your loved ones you care.
Love is what you do not what you say.
Mike - true, just glad I have got friends like you to help with the hard parts. Enjoy that grandbaby and I will talk to you tomorrow.
HatTrick - Yes, I've been keeping an eye on the radar up at your place. Stay safe.
Julie - thanks.
North - you give me a lot of credit that others deserve more, but thank you. I help when I can.
John - you say it more elequently than I, which speaks from experience. Thank you.
Jim - :-)
Joshkie - "Love is what you do, not what you say". So very true. I've had people say they love me and show me something totally different, and the strongest love I've felt was shown before it was ever said.
I am NOT awake yet (lots of sirens last night to wake one up).
The piece in the top picture and the heart necklace were made by my "little sis" Shannon. (no, we're not related by blood just by a long, strong friendship). Those are two creations I cherish. She has an etsy shop link in my friends sidebar, go look around.
Living in the "alley" and dealing first hand with this type of tragedy never prepares me for the emotional impact. I've had close friends lose everything but life and bounce back stronger. I've known families that lost loved ones, never to be the same. I've watched funnels looming as if to target our home, only to veer away and devestate some other structure. Those who live in the sweet spot between charging cold fronts and sweeping warm air develop a sense for when conditions are right and we go on point, watching for the signs. But no matter the years of experience we have the fallout is always powerful and prevoking. Prayers (and supplies) are gathered and sent, efforts are organized for when others have left to help those who remain rebuild. Out here its what we do. Thanks for so eloquently providing that sense of loss while illuminating the strength of the human spirit to plunge on in the face of adversity. Your words draw and motivate, maybe someone reading will decide to chip in in some way.
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